wtf the fuck at all of these posts i’m seeing on my dash defending outright emotional manipulation and abuse in friendships/relationships in general.
if you are at a point in your relationship with someone where:
- they are openly (however passive aggressively) jealous about you spending time with people who aren’t them
- they demand your attention above everyone else’s, or above other things you have going on in your life
- they force you to fulfil a quota of communication with them every day, like communication with them is something you owe them instead of something that should com naturally for both of you
- you have to walk on eggshells around them to avoid making them angry at you
- they refuse to apologise for treating you badly becuase they ‘can’t help’ it
- you feel guilty doing things that aren’t talking to them in case it upsets them
- if you are generally interacting them out of a perceived obligation or fear of upsetting them rather than a genuine desire to speak to them
- A MULTITUDE of really unhealthy shit
that is not healthy. that is not a sign of a healthy friendship. stop defending this shit.
GUYS PLEASE STOP REBLOGGING THE TUKI POST
Hey guys, I’m sorry for not updating you all till now. These past 24 hours have been really depressing and I’ll write a more detailed post soon on what happened with Tuki. Long story short: We couldn’t wait till morning to get Tuki help (she wouldnt make it by then) so we took her to an emergency animal clinic. Unfortunately, the doctors told us Tuki would most likely not survive even with emergency medical intervention so in the end, she had to be put down.
We gathered $85.84 in donations and that money went to help pay the euthanasia bill (which I’ll share with you as well as proof).
I’m sorry. Like I said, I’ll inform you all better in a bit. In the meantime, please stop spreading the first post I made. Tuki’s gone.
WELL AREN’T YOU A FUCKING RAY OF SUNSHINE YOUR PARENTS SURE MOST BE PROUD OF YOU
Ok asshole, the reason I didn’t post my own paypal email was because my legal name is on it and that is information I refuse to disclose publicly. That is why my friend is letting me borrow her paypal to get the money and then I will transfer said money into my paypal and then into my bank account so we can pay for the vet visit. Second, I’m fucking unemployed and currently living on my savings, which are low and running out. If I had enough money saved up I’d gladly pay for the cat’s care myself but like I said in the post—the post I doubt you bothered to read fully through— I said neither I or my roommates have enough money on our hands at the moment. We are all tight on money right now, so why don’t you shut the hell up and stop acting like we can simply shit money out of our asses just like that and why dont you especially shut your stupidass mouth since it’s not YOU currently sitting on this computer with a dying kitten in a box on your lap.
And I can’t believe you are using the “people are starving” excuse oh my god you are absolutely pathetic. “oh boohoo people have it worse than you how dare you ask for help”. Suck. my. ass.